Lavender: Healing the Wounds of Abandonment
- Jen Weir
- Jan 4
- 1 min read
Abandonment is a heavy emotion, but Lavender is here to lighten the load. Whether it's grief, trauma, or fear of loss, Lavender helps unlock the emotions we hold deep inside—often without realizing it.
Let’s explore the roots of abandonment and how Lavender can become a powerful ally in the healing process.

Common Causes of Abandonment Feelings:
Death: Even though death is a natural part of life, it’s often traumatic, especially when unexpected.
Abuse: Physical, sexual, or emotional abuse can leave deep scars, including a persistent fear of being abandoned.
Poverty: Growing up without financial security can instill a fear of instability. For many, money equates to safety and the ability to meet basic needs.
Relationship Loss: Breakups or the end of important connections can lead to feelings of rejection.
Adoption: Even in the most loving families, adopted children may feel, deep down, “someone gave me up.”
Divorce: While it may be the best choice for parents, children often carry emotional wounds from the experience.
Did you know? If you’ve struggled to enjoy the scent of Lavender, it might mean you have unresolved emotions tied to abandonment. Take it slow: diffuse it in another room or apply it to your feet before bed. Let its calming properties gently work on your emotions as you sleep.
Pro Tip: Journal your thoughts while inhaling Lavender—it might reveal hidden truths and start your healing journey.
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